The North Carolina Association of Professional Family Mediators

Supporting the practice of family mediation and promoting professional excellence

Find a Mediator

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Although the North Carolina Association of Professional Family Mediators does not verify credentials of any of its members, providers listed on this page have stated that they meet the minimum criteria established by the NCAPFM membership for listing.  We encourage any person considering the services of these providers to contact the provider directly for more information on

 

 

 

 

their credentials, experience, or qualifications.   

Western NC – Zone 1

Sarah Corley
Mediation Works NC

Asheville
(828) 232-2800 ofc
(828) 232-2801 fax
(828) 779-9327 cell
sarah@mediationworksnc.com
www.mediationworksnc.com

I have over 25 years of experience in mediation and am certified by the NC Dispute Resolution Commission in Superior Court and Family Financial Mediation. I am an attorney, licensed in Georgia and California. I currently limit my practice exclusively to mediation, primarily of employment and family law matters. I mediate all aspects of divorce, including custody and visitation, equitable distribution and other financial issues. I am comfortable working with couples with or without attorneys present in the mediation.

 

David Irvine
Irvine Law Firm, PLLC
Asheville
(828) 424-7573 ofc
(252) 364-3399 fax
(252) 809-4930 cell
dji@irvinelawfirm.com
www.irvinelawfirm.com

I am certified by the Dispute Resolution Commission as a Superior Court and Family Financial Mediator.  I am also a trained and certified Parenting Coordinator. Since becoming certified by the DRC, I have mediated over 500 cases.

 

 
 

Western NC – Zone 2

Susan Cox
Charlotte
(704) 556-1798 ofc
scox44@earthlink.net
www.SusanCoxMediation.com

Susan Cox has been mediating since 1983. Her practice includes parenting and financial issues of divorce, prenuptial agreements, parent-child, elder care, stepfamily, and other family issues. She can do multi-party mediation, EEO, community, family business and neighborhood disputes.  Susan has been certified at the Advanced Practitioner level and is a member of the Academy of Professional Family Mediators and the N.C. Association of Professional Family Mediators. Masters in Social Work.

 

Michael R. Musselman
Carolina Divorce Mediators, LLC
Charlotte/Lake Norman
(704) 896-5882
mike@CharlotteMediationGroup.com
www.CarolinaDivorceMediators.com

Mike Musselman, www.CarolinaDivorceMediators.com, Charlotte, NC, 704-896-5882

When it comes to the children of divorcing parents, I am considerate of the needs of my clients. Divorce is considered the most difficult of relationships to grieve. While the husband and wife thing may not have worked out, they can still be parents forever and I will assist them in crafting an agreement that shows them how that will work.  I will work for my clients to help them part ways respectfully. Many of my clients enter the process with differing views and this is always okay, couples do disagree and this is often part of the reason they are here. My process helps the couple avoid court so they can make all of the decisions and focus on being parents. Board member of the NC Association of Professional Family Mediators, and member NC Bar (Dispute Resolution).

 

Scott R. Hardy
Carolina Divorce Mediators, LLC
Charlotte/Lake Norman
(704) 896-5882
(704) 968-8880
srhardy () CharlotteMediationGroup.com
www.CarolinaDivorceMediators.com

Scott Hardy, www.CarolinaDivorceMediators.com, Charlotte, NC, 704-896-5882

Scott is a divorce mediator who minimizes emotional distress and financial costs of court by guiding clients in a thorough step-by-step process that builds long-lasting agreements. He carefully coordinates the development of comprehensive parenting agreements that minimizes future disputes having minimal impact on the children.  Board member of the NC Association of Professional Family Mediators, and member NC Bar (Dispute Resolution).

 

Marianne M. Haynes
Charlotte
(704) 299-6452
mlmhaynes@yahoo.com
www.themediator.co

Helping resolve conflict through constructive conversations involving family, workplace or neighborhood issues. Over 20 years experience. Advanced Practitioner, Association for Conflict Resolution; member NCAPFM.

 

Andy Silver
Resolution Experts

Charlotte/Davidson
(704) 375-1124 ofc
www.ResolutionExperts.com
Andy@ResolutionExperts.com

Certified divorce mediator for Equitable Distribution of marital property as well as Parenting Plans(custody and visitation arrangement). Master’s degree in Conflict Resolution. Additional strength as Conflict Coach. Two offices: Davidson NC and SouthPark Charlotte.

 

Michael Wayland
Christian Divorce Services
Charlotte
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it does happen and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents.

 

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Western NC – Zone 3

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Western NC – Zone 4

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Central NC – Zone 1

Dwight G. West
Burlington
Mediation Services
(336) 269-2255 
dgwest@triad.rr.com

 

Robert E. (Trey) Gray
Greensboro
Law Office of Robert E. Gray III
(336) 905-7666 ofc
(336) 687-7343 cell
(336) 905-7666 fax
robert@regraylaw.com

A practicing family law attorney, NCDRC certified family financial mediator and father of three, Mr. Gray graduated first in his class at High Point University before earning his law degree from UNC. A former business owner and consultant, Registered Financial Advisor, NASD securities dealer and City Councilman since 1995, Mr. Gray’s broad experience and kind demeanor have been instrumental in assisting many participants in reaching successful and lasting resolutions.

 

Nancy J. Stevens
High Point
(336) 202-4432   Private Mediation & Parenting Coordination Clients
(336) 217-8411   fax
nstevens@triad.rr.com

Nancy’s experience includes over 3000 custody mediations as a mediator for the Administrative Office of the Courts. Exhibiting a calm demeanor and a high level of professionalism, Nancy is patient, optimistic and persistent during mediation sessions. She is available for custody mediations and parenting coordination, but does not handle the financial issues of divorce. She also handles small business mediations. • MA Psychology, Michigan State University, 1980 • Over 400 hours of mediation training • Former President, NC Association of Professional Family Mediators • Member, Association of Family & Conciliation Courts • NC DRC Certified Mediator for MSC Program in Superior Court since 2004

 

Joseph Turner
Greensboro
(336) 609-6018 ofc
turnermediation@gmail.com

Retired Resident Superior Court Judge and former Chief District Court Judge in Guilford County. Attorney since 1976; Judge since 1988. DRC Certified Mediator for M.S.C. Program in Superior Court since January, 2013 and for F.F.S. Program in District Court since April, 2013.

 

Frances Wright Henderson
Dispute Settlement Center, Inc.

fhenderson@disputesettlement.org
www.disputesettlement.org
Carrboro

(919) 260-9812
Frances Henderson is a lawyer who has been a mediator since 1991, as the Executive Director of the Dispute Settlement Center based in Carrboro. Her practice includes Family, Eldercare, Special Education, Superior Court and Clerk of Court-referred, Criminal District Court, and community cases.

 

Michael Wayland
Christian Divorce Services
Greensboro/Winston Salem
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it does happen and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents.

 

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Central NC – Zone 2

Michael Haswell
Haswell Mediation Services
Raleigh
(919) 665-7686
haswell@haswellmediation.com
www.Haswellmediation.com

I am a certified mediator severing the Research Triangle since 1995. The primary focus of my mediation practice is child custody, visitation and support. Likewise, I have extensive experience in mediating work place disputes, family disputes involving elder care issues and family businesses. Fixed Fee Structure available.

 

Richard Igou, Esq.
R.J. Igou Mediation & Elder Matters of the Carolinas LLC
Durham
(919) 682-3517 ofc
(919) 682-2016 fax
rick@rjigou.com
www.rjigou.com  
www.eldermatters.org

– Over 28 years as a mediator
– Experienced in Divorce, Family and Elder Mediation
– DRC Certified Family Financial and Superior Court mediator
– No fee for initial consultation and interview

 

Gabriela J. Matthews
Gabriela J. Matthews & Associates

Durham
(919) 956-7888 ofc
(888) 422-6288 fax
gabriela@ncdivorcelawyer.com
www.ncdivorcelawyer.com

 

Doug Koenig
Law Offices of Douglas E. Koenig, PLLC

Durham
(919) 883-2800 ofc
dougkoeniglaw@gmail.com
www.dougkoeniglaw.com

The practice helps elders and their families avoid the devastatingly high costs of long term care. We do this by consulting, planning, and executing legal strategies in concert with your financial planner and CPA. Secure your future with a properly planned estate plan, especially if there are changes in your family.

 

Michael Wayland
Christian Divorce Services
Raleigh/Durham
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it does happen and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents.

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Central NC – Zone 3

Michael Haswell
Haswell Mediation Services
Pikeville
(919) 665-7686
haswell@haswellmediation.com
www.Haswellmediation.com

I am a certified mediator severing the Research Triangle since 1995. The primary focus of my mediation practice is child custody, visitation and support. Likewise, I have extensive experience in mediating work place disputes, family disputes involving elder care issues and family businesses. Fixed Fee Structure available.

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Central NC – Zone 4

I recognize the interplay of the legal, financial, and emotional aspects of divorce. So I strive to minimize your stress in making those tough decisions, in an informal yet structured environment allowing for creative decisions. Divorce shouldn’t be strictly a legalistic process, but rather one of negotiation with compassion. [Free consultation.]

 

Michael Wayland
Christian Divorce Services
Fayetteville
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it does happen and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents.

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Eastern NC – Zone 1

Mary Salisbury
The Right Divorce Solution, LLC
Wilmington

(910) 622-7180 ofc
Mary@TheRightDivorceSolution.com
www.therightdivorcesolution.com

The Right Divorce Solution, LLC provides divorce financial planning and divorce mediation services for individuals and couples.  Other services include education on the financial aspects of divorce, preparation of Lifestyle Analysis, QDRO facilitation and pension valuations.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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