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Although the North Carolina Association of Professional Family Mediators does not verify credentials of any of its members, providers listed on this page have stated that they meet the minimum criteria established by the NCAPFM membership for listing.  We encourage any person considering the services of these providers to contact the provider directly for more information on their credentials, experience, or qualifications.   

Western NC Zone 1

Mediation Works NC

Sarah Corley

Asheville
(828) 232-2800 ofc
(828) 232-2801 fax
(828) 779-9327 cell
sarah@mediationworksnc.com
www.mediationworksnc.com

I have over 30 years of experience in mediation and am certified by the NC Dispute Resolution Commission for mediation in Superior Court, Family Financial, and Matters before the Clerk of Superior Court. I am an attorney, licensed in Georgia and California. I currently limit my practice exclusively to mediation, primarily of employment and family law matters. I mediate all aspects of divorce, including custody and visitation, equitable distribution and other financial issues. I am comfortable working with couples with or without attorneys present in the mediation.

Christian Divorce Services

Michael Wayland

Asheville NC and surrounding areas
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it does happen and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents despite facing divorce. Specialist in Small Business and Family Business at time of Divorce.

   Western NC Zone 2

Charlotte

Susan Cox

(704) 556-1798 ofc
susan@susancoxmediation.com
www.SusanCoxMediation.com

Susan Cox has been mediating since 1983. Her practice includes parenting and financial issues of divorce, prenuptial agreements, parent-child, elder care, stepfamily, and other family issues. She can do multi-party mediation, EEO, community, family business and neighborhood disputes.  Susan has been previously certified at the Advanced Practitioner level and is a member of the N.C. Association of Professional Family Mediators. Masters in Social Work.

Southpark Family Law

Ms. Deborah L. Dilman

Charlotte, NC
(704) 684-4504
ddilman@southparkfamilylaw.com
southparkfamilylaw.com

I am a family law attorney, a certified Family Financial Mediator with the NC Dispute Resolution Commission, and a trained attorney utilizing the Collaborative Law process to resolve matters outside of litigation. My work is extensively focused on finding creative separation and divorce solutions providing hope for the future and peace of mind in the present.

Carolina Divorce Mediators, LLC

Michael R. Musselman

Charlotte/Lake Norman
(704) 896-5882
mike@CharlotteMediationGroup.com
www.CarolinaDivorceMediators.com

Mike Musselman, www.CarolinaDivorceMediators.com, Charlotte, NC, 704-896-5882

When it comes to the children of divorcing parents, I am considerate of the needs of my clients. Divorce is considered the most difficult of relationships to grieve. While the husband and wife thing may not have worked out, they can still be parents forever and I will assist them in crafting an agreement that shows them how that will work.  I will work for my clients to help them part ways respectfully. Many of my clients enter the process with differing views and this is always okay, couples do disagree and this is often part of the reason they are here. My process helps the couple avoid court so they can make all of the decisions and focus on being parents. Board member of the NC Association of Professional Family Mediators, and member NC Bar (Dispute Resolution).

Carolina Divorce Mediators, LLC

Scott R. Hardy

Charlotte/Lake Norman
(704) 896-5882
(704) 968-8880
srhardy () CharlotteMediationGroup.com
www.CarolinaDivorceMediators.com

Scott Hardy, www.CarolinaDivorceMediators.com, Charlotte, NC, 704-896-5882

Scott is a divorce mediator who minimizes emotional distress and financial costs of court by guiding clients in a thorough step-by-step process that builds long-lasting agreements. He carefully coordinates the development of comprehensive parenting agreements that minimizes future disputes having minimal impact on the children.  Board member of the NC Association of Professional Family Mediators, and member NC Bar (Dispute Resolution).

Uroboros Mediations

Salim Uqdah

Charlotte
(704) 879-1519

Salim@uroborosmediations.com
www.uroborosmediations.com

At Uroboros Mediations, our core services include family mediation services (especially in regard to financial issues), LGBTQ+ conflict resolution, divorce coaching, and general mediation. Whether you are heading for divorce or dealing with a business dispute, employment issue, or landlord-tenant conflict, mediation may be just what you need to handle the problem.

Road To Resolution

Robin Perrigo Mermans Milo

Charlotte
(704) 260-1600
robin@roadtoresolution.com
www.roadtoresolution.com

We are a non-adversarial law practice based in Charlotte, North Carolina.   Attorney-Mediator Robin Perrigo works with families outside of court to settle their matters through collaborative divorce, mediation, and private agreements.

Christian Divorce Services

Michael Wayland

​Charlotte NC and surrounding areas
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it does happen and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents despite facing divorce. Specialist in Small Business and Family Business at time of Divorce.

Krista Stallard, Attorney

Stallard & Bellof, PLLC

Charlotte, NC

704-464-0538

Fax: 704-464-0539

kstallard@stallardbelloflaw.com

www.stallardbelloflaw.com

Krista has worked primarily in the area of family law since she was licensed to practice law in North Carolina in 2009. She has been a certified Family Financial Mediator with the NC Dispute Resolution Commission since 2019, helping families to resolve issues such as parenting schedules, support issues, and property distribution. Krista is also a collaboratively trained attorney and a member of the North Carolina Chapter of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts. Krista can conduct mediations in-person or remotely.

Western NC Zone 3

Christian Divorce Services

Michael Wayland

Western North Carolina and surrounding states
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it does happen and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents despite facing divorce. Specialist in Small Business and Family Business at time of Divorce.

Western NC Zone 4

Fairway Family Mediation, LLC

Brooke Schmidly

Asheboro
(336) 462-8116 primary
(336) 460-1477 secondary
Brooke@FairwayFamilyMediation.com
www.FairwayFamilyMediation.com

I use my decade of experience in family litigation to mediate all family issues and end protracted litigation or avoid litigation.  Our goal is a fair and wise agreement.  I mediate with or without attorneys, for cases in court or hoping to avoid court, virtually or in person.

Christian Divorce Services

Michael Wayland

Asheboro NC and surrounding areas
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

As a Christian Mediator, I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it happens and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents despite facing divorce. Specialist mediator in Small Business and Family Business at time of Divorce.

Central NC Zone 1

Law Office of Robert E. Gray III

Robert E. (Trey) Gray 

Greensboro

(336) 905-7666 ofc
(336) 687-7343 cell
(336) 905-7666 fax
robert@regraylaw.com

A practicing family law attorney, NCDRC certified family financial mediator and father of three, Mr. Gray graduated first in his class at High Point University before earning his law degree from UNC. A former business owner and consultant, Registered Financial Advisor, NASD securities dealer and City Councilman since 1995, Mr. Gray’s broad experience and kind demeanor have been instrumental in assisting many participants in reaching successful and lasting resolutions.

Greensboro

Joseph Turner

Greensboro
(336) 609-6018 ofc
turnermediation@gmail.com

Retired Resident Superior Court Judge and former Chief District Court Judge in Guilford County. Attorney since 1976; Judge since 1988. DRC Certified Mediator for M.S.C. Program in Superior Court since January, 2013 and for F.F.S. Program in District Court since April, 2013.

DSC, Inc.

Frances Wright Henderson

fhenderson@disputesettlement.org
www.disputesettlement.org
Carrboro
(919) 260-9812

Frances Henderson has mediated divorces for 30 years, supporting couples through all aspects of the dissolution of their relationships.

Christian Divorce Services

Michael Wayland

Greensboro / Winston Salem NC and surrounding areas
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

As a Christian Mediator, I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it happens and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents despite facing divorce. Specialist mediator in Small Business and Family Business at time of Divorce.

Thomas Walk

Thomas Walk, Mediator

Greensboro, NC

Phone: 276-971-9001

Email: thewalks@verizon.net

 I am a Certified FFS mediator in North Carolina and former substitute judge in Juvenile & Domestic Relations Courts in Virginia. I believe mediation can be a way for families to untie, rather than cut, the strings that held them together.

Central NC Zone 2

R.J. Igou Mediation & Elder Matters of the Carolinas LLC

Richard Igou, Esq.

Durham
(919) 450-8447 ofc
(919) 682-2016 fax
rick@rjigou.com
www.rjigou.com
www.eldermatters.org

– Over 31 years as a mediator
– Experienced in Divorce, Family and Elder Mediation
– NCDRC Certified Family Financial and Superior Court mediator
– No fee for initial consultation and interview
– Hourly or fixed fee rates available

Gabriela J. Matthews & Associates

Gabriela J. Matthews

Durham
(919) 956-7888 ofc
(888) 422-6288 fax
gabriela@ncdivorcelawyer.com
www.ncdivorcelawyer.com

Law Offices of Douglas E. Koenig, PLLC

Doug Koenig

Durham
(919) 883-2800 ofc
dougkoeniglaw@gmail.com
www.dougkoeniglaw.com

The practice helps elders and their families avoid the devastatingly high costs of long term care. We do this by consulting, planning, and executing legal strategies in concert with your financial planner and CPA. Secure your future with a properly planned estate plan, especially if there are changes in your family.

The Right Divorce Solution, LLC

Mary Salisbury

Clayton

(910) 622-7180 ofc
Mary@TheRightDivorceSolution.com
www.therightdivorcesolution.com

The Right Divorce Solution, LLC provides divorce financial planning and divorce mediation services for individuals and couples.  Other services include education on the financial aspects of divorce, preparation of Lifestyle Analysis, QDRO facilitation and pension valuations.

Christian Divorce Services

Michael Wayland

Raleigh / Durham / Chapel Hill, NC and surrounding areas
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

As a Christian Mediator, I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it happens and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents despite facing divorce. Specialist mediator in Small Business and Family Business at time of Divorce.

Central NC Zone 3

Haswell Mediation Services

Michael Haswell

Pikeville
(919) 665-7686
haswell@haswellmediation.com
www.Haswellmediation.com

I am a certified mediator severing the Research Triangle since 1995. The primary focus of my mediation practice is child custody, visitation and support. Likewise, I have extensive experience in mediating work place disputes, family disputes involving elder care issues and family businesses. Fixed Fee Structure available.

Christian Divorce Services

Michael Wayland

Pinehurst, Southern Pines, Carthage, & Central NC
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

As a Christian Mediator, I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it happens and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents despite facing divorce. Specialist mediator in Small Business and Family Business at time of Divorce.

Central NC Zone 4

Christian Divorce Services

Michael Wayland

Fayetteville NC and surrounding areas
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

As a Christian Mediator, I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it happens and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents despite facing divorce. Specialist mediator in Small Business and Family Business at time of Divorce.

Eastern NC Zone 1

The Right Divorce Solution, LLCff

Mary Salisbury

Wilmington
(910) 622-7180 ofc
Mary@TheRightDivorceSolution.com
www.therightdivorcesolution.com

The Right Divorce Solution, LLC provides divorce financial planning and divorce mediation services for individuals and couples.  Other services include education on the financial aspects of divorce, preparation of Lifestyle Analysis, QDRO facilitation and pension valuations.

Resolution Experts

Andrew M. Silver

Greater Wilmington Ates

(704) 375-1124
andy@resolutionexperts.com
www.resolutionexperts.com

Facilitate Divorce Mediation for couples including distribution of marital assets and marital debt, parenting plans, and related issues. Twenty-four years of experience and a masters degree from Columbia College in Dispute Resolution.

Christian Divorce Services

Michael Wayland

Eastern NC and surrounding areas
(614) 774-3766
Michael@ChristianDivorceServices.com
www.ChristianDivorceServices.com

As a Christian Mediator, I do not advocate divorce, however, I recognize that it happens and want to help the two of you through the associated issues without having to litigate against each other. I work for the two of you as a family for the best possible outcome. Where children are involved, I place special emphasis on child and parenting issues to help you to continue to be good Christian parents despite facing divorce. Specialist mediator in Small Business and Family Business at time of Divorce.

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